Abraham-Hicks workshop notes
Bethesda, MD, Saturday 10-11-2008
- Accept that desire is essential to eternal
expansion. Your desire is the furthest out of the leading edge
perspective. Without the contrast there would be no new conclusions.
- Everything is relational. Life causes you to
want, and a new point of perspective is established...
- Whatever degree of preference occurs, Source
gives its undivided attention to that preference, and a new
vibrational vantage point happens.
- Your emotions are your indicator of your
alignment. The vibration of the larger part of you has become
activated around your new request. You have two vantage points
playing off one another all the time. That’s your guidance system.
- The basis of that which you are is nonphysical.
From there, you wanted to mix it up here and come to new conclusions.
You can’t be in any space without being aware of what would make it
just a little better for you.
- Appreciate those who came before who established
what you came into.
- The larger part of you is Source Energy.
Whatever you ask for, all day, every day, Source becomes it.
- In the midst of things you like the least, you
are doing some of your best creating.
- If you could see what the contrast causes you to
ask with more poignancy, you would be able to appreciate it. You
become weller after a sickness, richer after a downturn in the
- Vibrationally speaking, catching up with what
Source is living in your Vibrational Escrow IS your job. Yet you
complain that your VE is not paying your rent yet. You say, “I want
it converted to something I can spend or sleep with!!!”
- Look in the direction of it and you WILL live
- The only thing that slows you down is that you
keep explaining that you don’t have it.
- A fresh, pure desire feels like interest or
passion. A life giving, frisky moment that is a match to your VE
feels like the culmination of what you are asking for. Disappointment
is a match to what you don’t want.
- It is not necessary for you to suffer, the
things you want should come quickly.
- Life has caused you to become more. What’s the
rest of you doing?
- If you are over here irritated, saying, “I don’t
have enough” or “They aren’t doing it right” you are not a match.
- If you want it to remain true, pay attention to
- If you don’t like it, focus on something else.
- Notice how it feels when you pay attention to
it. If it doesn’t feel good, train yourself into alignment with your
- Everything you have asked for vibrationally,
Source has become and Law of Attraction is responding to that larger
point of attraction. All things that match that are drawn into this
vortex of attraction.
- If you could view the vortex of Mass
Consciousness, you would know the utter wellbeing there. Money and
clarity are there. All of that which you collectively want is ALL
DONE! The only thing that is missing is you!
- You have created the vibrational culmination of
what you want, but if you are focusing on explaining what is, you are
not going there yet.
- The tension of not going is what equals negative
- When you feel fear/anger/frustration, you are
not yet in the vortex. If you are feeling ease/passion/joy, you are
in the vortex. When you have asked for an improved life and you’re
beating the drum of not having it, you feel bad. You’ve got to let
yourself BE it, or you are not going to feel good.
- You can’t stop wanting, give that up! The
entire Universe is orchestrated to expand through contrast and the
birth of desire.
- When you ask from the contrast, that is Step 1.
Step 2 is the Universe/Source answering and holding steady to that,
calling you towards it. There is no slipping back from the
expansion. You cannot say, “Oh, never mind.” You can’t take it
back. You have no choice except to let yourself go to who you have
become if you want to feel good. You have to find thoughts that allow
you to catch up, which is Step 3, allowing.
- Say, “I am no longer going to be the only
holdout from my good.”
- Allowing means looking for positive aspects,
rampaging appreciation, saying, “Wouldn’t it be nice if…” and “won’t
it be lovely when?” Lean toward optimism.
- Esther lost her beautiful gold pen that Jerry
had given her. She told him and he said, “Oh, good! Something to
buy!” But she wanted THAT pen. She kept saying, “Where’s my pen, I
want my pen. It’s lost! Where’s my pen, I want my pen. Where’s my
pen, I want my pen. Where’s my pen, I want my pen. Where’s my pen,
I want my pen” for days. Jerry finally said, “Let it go!” Esther
said, “I have no choice.” Months later, looking for something else,
she found her pen in a purse she had turned upside down several
- How could she not have seen it there? You
cannot find what is LOST! You cannot receive apart from the
vibrational patterns within you. Esther let her factual, truth-based
reality prove to her that it was not there. But generally, when you
are looking at the facts, you are seeing a distorted view that
contradicts what you want, and therefore, what you want cannot come to
- How can you not notice the facts? Make reality
less important to you. Focus on what is to come. It sets up a new
and improved version of reality.
- When someone says, “Hi, how are you? How have
you been?” say, “that’s an irrelevant question!” Your friend then
says, “What do you want me to ask?” “Ask where I am GOING! That’s my
- Or, When someone says, “How have you been?” say
enthusiastically, “really engulfed in the leading edge contrast! I am
queued up for a truly dynamic future for myself from sifting through
the contrast and birthing desires! And now I am giving my undivided
attention to my beautiful future! I no longer face reality, I MINE
reality for reasons to feel good.”
- Become a selective sifter. Focus on the very
BEST feeling pieces of all of it.
- Your future is already set up and ready for
you. Focus there and you will move quickly toward it.
- When you are having a tumultuous experience with
someone who is really bothering you, when you think of them, you feel
a thorn in your side. You want them to fall in a hole, they irritate
you so much. And EVERY time it feels uncomfortable, you are
requesting an improvement, putting a new version of them into your VE
that is kinder, clearer, and more magnificent, you cannot help it!
- You are adding, adding, adding, adding, adding
to your VE and Source has become it and is now orchestrating
circumstances and events to culminate in this new and better
relationship you want.
- Play “isn’t it lovely” and train yourself to
focus there. Every time you look back, you match the old vibration.
- This ornery person harassed you into expansion,
but your continuing to look at it is keeping you from going there
yourself. Then you feel negative emotion and blame THEM for your
getting mad. But if it weren’t for YOUR expansion, you wouldn’t feel
bad. The only thing that is happening is that YOU grew and then you
- The funny thing is, the more you don’t go, the
more you ask, and the bigger the contrast feels and the more you grow!
- Let go of the struggle for control, let go of
all of the conversation about what happened. Just give it up.
- Other people are not here to feather your nest.
You were born to feather your own nest. Just move into alignment with
- When Esther is lost, she appreciates Jerry’s
help with navigation. When she knows where she is going, it irritates
her. He walks a fine line, because he doesn’t know what she knows.
- Don’t answer questions that haven’t been asked.
- People who give you grief are your best
co-creators. It’s easier to appreciate the contrast when you are
looking back at it.
- Learn to appreciate the contrast in the present
moment. Say, “There’s a pony in here somewhere! I’m pretty sure
something good will come out of this. I suppose you wouldn’t be here
bugging me if I weren’t a match to you. So here we are banging it out
together. Thanks for the trouble!”
- Let go of control of conditions. Align your
- When you see people having trouble, play the
game of seeing them having what they want in your imagination
instead. When you focus there, it feels great. And then you can look
forward to their feeling great, too.
- If you are feeling negative emotion about
someone or anything, the new experience you are wanting is now in your
VE, whether it relates to your body, spouse, children, government or
economy. You are doing it ALL to you! And you can change it!
- We’ll continue to coax you in the direction of
what you want, but you are the creator of your own reality. Say,
“I’ve already done step 1!” and appreciate those who’ve helped you
through the contrast. Say, “and step 2 is already done. So now I’m
focused on getting into the vortex. Because everything I want is
already done in the vortex. It’s already done.”
- If you are not feeling good, you are in a
holding pattern outside the vortex. Focus on the bigger story of
wellbeing of your planet. Get out of the action business and into the
- You will thrive in this economy if your mindset
puts you into alignment with worthiness and wellbeing.
- To handle contrast in the financial markets,
remember that who you are KEEPS expanding, and you need to line up
with who you have JUST become.
- The financial crisis is SO helpful, because it
has caused a HUGE expansion in the existing vortex. In the bigger
picture, this is a good thing!
- Questioner: I have 400 clients who are so
afraid… I can’t tell them about YOU! Abraham: Your premise shoots
you in the foot. You’ve set up a conflict between this airy fairy
stuff and the real world. But don’t sell short the vibrational
reality. NOTHING is not first a vibrational reality.
- Get IN the vortex and be an INSIDE TRADER! When
you are a match to that, all your impulses will be right on.
- You have to find another way to say it.
- Questioner: But we are looking at fear…
Abraham: SO WHAT?
- Questioner: The world is spiraling in negative
thought. Abraham: Jesus didn’t have a heavy positive thought. A
frightened person has strong worry and that creates strong asking,
which builds a bright VE. You don’t have to find counterbalancing
- When you are just sort of aware, there is a limp
asking. When you are really sick, you really want to be well, you are
really asking for more wellbeing. Desire that is born of experience
is equal and commensurate, so when the contrast is great, you are
asking for a larger improvement.
- When you observe great asking, imagine the
amassing vortex of attraction to be equally great. Tell your
clients, “When we see someone who is frightened, like you, we know
that you are asking for a BIG improvement. Sources always answers and
coalesces everything that needs to happen.”
- Focus on where you are going. Soothe yourself
and you will come into alignment and you will see things happen right
- But what most people do is feel fear and ask for
more, feel fear and ask for more, feel fear and ask for more, but the
gap gets wider because you keep asking for what you don’t go to, and
the rougher it gets.
- Questioner: I have 400 clients, I can’t tell
them what you just told me! Abraham: The market as you have
understood it is not working well for you. People look and say, “Why
not US having wellbeing?” If you say, “I know what to do.” They will
say, “Good, then you lead me!” You are afraid to teach them the Laws
of the Universe. That’s ok, you divine it out, and tell them. Talk
to God. Say, “I won’t tell them, just tell ME what to do!”
- This “tragedy” is not what it seems. It’s
exaggerated, manipulated. Many will win here, why not you?
- Right now it seems like it is kind of like
jumping out of an airplane at 20,000 feet with no parachute. We say,
“don’t worry, it will be over soon!”
- Tell them, “We’ve got a good plan. Do not
- We see the platform of the balance of thought,
and things don’t shift very much from one day to the next. An
accurate description of the bad news in proportion to the good is just
a moment of static in a day of good news, wellbeing is predominant!
Stability FAR outweighs instability.
- But it is possible for people to incite a riot.
The economy/market is all about perception – building on a promise of
what is to come.
- Believe in your vibrational escrow. It’s not
possible for time/space reality to incite a desire in you that it
cannot deliver. Your job is to soothe yourself and help others find
confidence. And when you do, they will thrive in extraordinary ways.
- Say, “I’m just like you. When I listen to doom
and gloom, I feel the bottom drop out of me. When I focus on thoughts
not wanted, I feel like I’ve been hit with a baseball bat. But I make
the choice to posture myself like those who win. I find my clarity,
confidence and stability on purpose. Not much has changed here except
- And when you are aligned, you can be brilliant
and know EXACTLY what you are talking about. And they will hear you.
- Source has already matched their rockets of
desire about their portfolios. Make your effort be to align and get
into that vortex.
- You can listen to your client’s trauma, or
Source’s knowing within you. Don’t let yourself go down the fear
trail, and you will know exactly what to do.
- Questioner: I know I’m Source Energy, I get
it. But my question is HOW do I maintain my confidence in the midst
of this turmoil… Abraham: That’s the art of allowing. You’ve got to
stop facing reality. Your VE is where it’s at. Look at where you are
GOING and be buoyed up, not where you are and dropping down.
- You are negatively what if-ing. Could they hold
you individually responsible in this climate? NO! Just relax.
- Focus on where you are going, don’t focus on
where you are now.
- The old story plays a big part in your ability
to ask the question. Anytime you ask a question, you are in Step 1.
Make peace with Step 1.
- Sometimes you make contrast such an academic
experience. As you catalog and restate your dilemma, you are staying
in step 1.
- Life automatically causes you to ask. You
remain on the verge and not in the vortex when you think you need to
do something to get you from over here to over there. It keeps your
focus on “not over there, needing a process.”
- You aren’t spending enough air time over there
yet! You just gave us seven scenarios of what things are like over
here. Every time you focus on those things that are not working, you
ask again. Just find ANY scenario that is working in your life and
give it 100% of your attention, and you will get in the vortex.
- Ask about everything, “Does it help you get in
- Appreciation gets you in the vortex. Your
singular work is to get in the vortex. Find ANY reason to love,
praise, appreciate or feel good.
- Let go of the list of what’s not working. Let
go of control.
- You have to trust Law of Attraction. You have
to trust that life has caused your asking. You have to trust that the
larger part of you is already on it. You have to trust that you are
able to get into the vortex.
- When you are in anger or frustration, you are
not in the vortex. When you are hopeful, you are nearly in the
- You find it hard to stop trying so hard in every
breathing, sweating moment on your quest for fulfillment. Just slip
into the vortex. Don’t try to see what others are doing, just go
- J&E had the bus experience AGAIN! Esther was
reminded again that there are too many parts to control, on the bus
itself and in getting it repaired. They aren’t good at management and
there’s lots of people to organize. They don’t provide help and she
wants to restructure their experience. She has written a manual for
them of things people using their coaches want to know! She has been
intent on inspiring diligence in them, and every time, they just be as
- After several days of wrestling, she said, “I
get it that if I am going to remain in my body, I must give up control
of the uncontrollable.”
- And we said, “That’s EVERYTHING! Stop trying!
Stop needing conditions to change to feel better and just feel
- You keep asking, “Will they fix my bus? Will my
400 clients lose their money???” Your effort to control all this is
keeping you out of the vortex. That’s what denies your being in the
vortex. Little by little, let go of your responsibility for bringing
the bus company up to speed.
- We think it would be nice if you didn’t wait
until you are in a total bind to give it up. And we also love it when
you are terminally ill or the stock market is on the precipice to give
up trying to control it all. Just align YOURSELF and it will all fall
into place. Say things like, “Things always work out for me.”
Practice loving all the experiences that caused your expansion.
- The conditions aren’t causing your negative
emotion. It’s only because you are not directing your thoughts
- Use whatever excuse you can find to feel
better. Want to feel good because it is your natural state.
- The way your kids behave has nothing to do with
your feeling good, that’s not their job. Stop depending on the
behavior of others to be happy. Your kids said, “Let’s go forth and
give her the time of her life! We’ll help her understand
- You create laws and rules to try to control
things, and then end up saying, “We need to KILL them” when they won’t
follow your rules.
- As long as you need them to behave in a certain
way so that you can feel good, you are not free. It’s impossible to
control them all. You have to leave everyone else out of the equation
and just focus on your thoughts. That’s FREEDOM to be who you really
- Say to yourself things like, “So many things are
lined up for me that I can focus on!”
- The leading edge always feels like a busy, fast
moving stream. Something of a gap to close is always there because
you keep birthing rockets of desire and needing to line up with them.
- It’s not harder to be connected in a fast moving
stream, it’s always proportionate. In a fast moving stream, it’s
easier to hear your guidance and do your work and align with it than
ever! It’s also more necessary than ever before to do the only thing
that ever worked anyway.
- As you work to close your gap, you will get into
a rhythm where you expect things to go well. Things are ALREADY
working out for you. The resources are ALREADY lined up. Just get
into the vortex!
- Say to yourself things like, “Things are always
working out for me, even if I don’t see it yet.”
- Know it is an emotional journey. Nothing
matters more than your attitude.
- It’s hard to be happy when you keep looking at
something that makes you unhappy. LOOK SOMEWHERE ELSE! Teach
yourself that it’s an inside job to align with the joy of Source
- Find a good mood by focusing on sunshine, or
wellbeing or no good reason, just get happy. Find a lighthearted good
feeling about anything.
- Jerry and Esther prepaved going to their
favorite restaurant for three cities back. They see it as a
homecoming, the people who remember them from previous visits seat
them in their favorite seats and as they remember the menu, they know
something really wonderful will be coming to them. But when they got
here this time, three volatile men were engaged in a verbal brawl,
sounding like they were going to get into a fist fight. J&E smiled at
them and thought, “Isn’t that cute!” They were so in a different
vibration from their prepaving that they didn’t go there. It didn’t
even matter. It was totally uneventful in the scheme of how they were
feeling. They didn’t comment on it, they just smiled, and three
minutes later the three men were laughing.
- J&E didn’t allow it to have anything to do with
them. They didn’t focus on “how did we end up here???”
- When you set your tone, you are unaffected by
things around you, whether it is traffic or the market or your
household relationships, you will see through the eyes of Source and
lose the feeling that you have to get in there and make it all better.
- You are tapped in, tuned in and turned on. You
are not irritated or isolated trying to hold your tone. You can tune
that convincingly to wellbeing.
- If Esther could tune that specifically to
wellbeing with her bus, the things with the company would not phase
- Your vibrational stance equals your life
experience. It’s NOT things out there. It’s only things INSIDE you
that effect you. You can be who you really are, or not. Line up as
best you can in every moment and trust.
- When you are physically focused and lined up
with who you really are, that is the BEST! How you feel has nothing
to do with all that external stuff, ONLY to do with what you are doing
right now with your mind in relationship to how the Source within you
- Praise, not condemn. Be clear, not confused.
- Say to yourself things like, “I want to be
ME!!! I want to love, praise and appreciate. I want to focus on the
solutions. I want to be an uplifter. I want to be clear minded. I
want to feel good.” The rest is just stuff. Ignore it!
- Someone is whining. Does that mean you should
get them out of that experience, or train them to stop whining. Or it
is possible that you can tune into Source so powerfully that someone
whining is totally unnoticed by you. This is all about fine tuning
- Abraham tells you that we are Pure Positive
Energy, tapped in, tuned in, turned on, a match to Source Energy. So,
if you are whining, as an individual or an audience, should we, or
Jerry & Esther, turn the other cheek? Or is there a co-creation that
will happen here that is valuable for all of us?
- Abraham does not assume that your whining is not
valid, it is, but we see it as just contrast through which greater
clarity will come. Abraham doesn’t condemn anyone who is in Step 1.
We know it is good that they are, that if there is no contrast, there
is no expansion. There is nothing wrong with whining a little bit.
It’s normal. Whiners are just amplified Step 1-ers. They’ve become a
lot more, and so far have not let themselves go.
- With people who learn deliberate creation, and
start to feel better, they often say, “I’m getting it now, but these
other people, they are SO negative. I feel threatened I might be
pulled down by them. Their NOT knowing what I know might win.”
- If you make peace with Step 1, you will move
into the vortex much faster.
- When you are learning to walk, you fall down
often. But once you learn to walk, you don’t say to the little one,
“Get up, you little dummy!!!” or “Those babies need to start walking
sooner!!!” They won’t cause you to fall down, while they are learning
and falling, and you know it.
- In the state of true knowing, the not knowing of
others doesn’t bother you.
- Being annoyed at others who are whining because
they don’t know is whining, too!!! It’s the same thing. You know you
have got it when no one else’s whining is bothering you.
- The brawl in the restaurant was amusing to
Esther because she was able to rise above it. Rise above the economy,
politics, all the whining, warring and wrong doing around you. Make
peace with it all. It’s all just part of step 1, which you do want.
- Say, “Thank you for your whining!” See the
whiners as winning over time. This could be the most fun thing you
could ever do. You will get so good at listening and extrapolating
what they do want and turning your full attention to it.
- Sometimes you think you have to stay connected
in every moment and that leads you to think you have to control all
those others or be a hermit. But that’s not true. You have the
ability to translate what is being said and hear it through the ears
- When you see your kid’s place as filthy, you
think, “I’m neat and clean and they are in disorder!” and you send of
an avalanche into Vibrational Escrow. You don’t want to walk away
from Step 1 opportunities like this.
- You thought your negative emotion was about
their whining, or what they are doing. But it’s about what you are
THINKING about their whining or their behavior. You MUST choose
something uplifting to think about them so you can go back to feeling
- Say to yourself, “Under any and all
circumstances, I can keep my balance.”
- When you see squalor and disease, your skin
crawls. But you can begin to think that these kids are being allowed
to be who they are and choose what they want. And you can say to
yourself, “I didn’t always live neatly myself, and over time, I made
different decisions. Those children who don’t come into a feathered
nest, they learn early independence that serves them well in their
lives. They knew what they were choosing before they came into the
physical. They knew they were choosing an exaggerated Step 1
experience and it’s ok.” And you bring yourself into alignment.
- You have got to bring yourself to a place where
you are adept at bringing yourself into alignment, no matter what.
Say to yourself, “I can be in alignment under ALL conditions.” The
other way isn’t working for you. You cannot get to where you want to
be by controlling others.
- It is possible to respond with alignment
anywhere. And when you do, life is a grand adventure!
- Discord equals “someone else needs to do
something different.” You need to THINK something different!
- When you get in a critical place, you project
that opinion of disapproval to another. Source within you never
disapproves of them. So you are pulling them away from who they
really are and their own guidance. When you try to convince them that
they are unlovable as they are, there is a tug of war going on with
their Inner Being. And you are NOT going to win! And if you do
convince them they are inferior, now you’ve got a broken person you
don’t want to live with. And you are acting the opposite of who YOU
really are in your criticism.
- When TV says the planet is in peril, or the
economy is in the toilet, those words drag you away from them knowing
of Your Inner Being, and you feel terrible.
- To be an uplifter, help everyone tune to the
vibration of their Inner Being. Compliment, praise, and treat them
like their Inner Being sees them. If you want your economy to thrive,
you must see it through the eyes of Source.
- You have a screwy idea that “being of service”
and struggle are intertwined. If you are not selfish enough to tune
yourself into alignment, you have nothing to offer. “To be of
service” often has an implied assumption that others don’t have the
same access to the stream of wellbeing that you have. Like you are
saying, “I will do for you what you cannot do for yourself.” And in
your observation of that, you are not connected.
- You are a born uplifter. But when you are
looking at someone and seeing them in need, you are not in alignment
with their Vibrational Escrow. And then you get frustrated because
you cannot help them make it better from that stance.
- When you are selfish enough to get into
alignment, you will be of service and in the vortex and then you will
- You are asking to be of value, to fulfill your
reason for being and also be abundant at the same time. So you are
asking and you will get it ALL when you get in the vortex.
- You will not be of service if you are not
abundant. In your thriving, you will radiate wellbeing. You can’t
give someone something they are not a match to. When you’ve witnessed
someone in great need, you put the new version of them into your
Vibrational Escrow, and your Inner Being is living that. Then, when
you look back and see they aren’t there yet, you feel bad.
- You need to train yourself to see as Jesus saw.
He saw your wellness and your alignment with the energy that creates
- The better it feels when you look at people, the
more in alignment you are. When someone like you, or Jesus, who are
in alignment, looks at them, those who are connected with Source are
more powerful than a million who are not. But when you imply they
NEED you, you are out of alignment.
- You are learning to tell good feeling stories
about them. It takes practice to learn to focus in that way. Train
yourself to feel good. Make feeling good your dominant intention.
- Whatever you attend to, you reverberate. It
only takes 17 + 17 + 17 + 17 = 68 seconds to effect your point of
attraction, positively or negatively. It only takes a few seconds
to fall into a chronically activated vibration, which is what a belief
is. That is where you most easily go.
- Won’t it be wonderful when your knee jerk
reaction is to LOVE someone and to know everything is going to work
out well for them?
- when someone complains, you know they have
asked, and that has caused improvement for them. And then you see
that and help call them toward it.
- Most of you want agreement from others before
you can know something. You feel like an idiot to offer optimism when
others are pessimistic. How dare YOU feel good in the middle of a
mess? You have to ignore ALL of that and give your attention to who
they really are, and give that your undivided attention.
- Train yourself into the knee jerk response of
Source to celebrate the new clarity and how much righter things become
when something feels wrong and new desires are launched. That’s why
you continue to expand and it cannot work otherwise.
- When you are in the vortex, you have to thrive
and have something to give. Winning the lottery is “of service.”
Your thriving is “of service.” You won’t serve others by humbly
depriving yourself of wellbeing. Some might be jealous of your
thriving, but that is because they are out of alignment. You want to
thrive and flaunt your thriving.
- Say to yourself, “There is abundance for all.
And I’ve tapped in and mine is flowing. There is plenty for
everyone. I can’t tap into their abundance. I’ve got my own. Theirs
is in their Vibrational Escrow, waiting for them. Meanwhile, the more
I ask for, the more I want. Abundance just happens to me in my life!
I wasn’t always there either. I can show you by my example, that
someone who is tapped into abundance that there is plenty there for
all of us.
- J&E’s beautiful monster bus causes a thumbs up
from many people as they pass, while other people put other fingers
up. It depends on where they are in relationship to their own
- Question: What about the Fairies of the
Universe? Abraham: We use every word we can find to describe the
large focus engaged on your behalf.
- Every label is a vibrational interpretation,
whether you call it angels, ghosts or fairies. Esther is receiving us
as blocks of thought, a vibrational language. She’s an auditory
translator of vibration. Others are visual. When you are dreaming,
you see through eyes that are closed. You call it seeing when you
have a vision.
- All emotion, positive and negative is an
indicator of how close to the perspective of Source you are in the
moment. It tells you if you are in alignment or disalignment. Guilt
is an attitude different from the attitude of Source.
- If you say, “I am wrong”, and are condemning
yourself, or another, you feel bad because you have deviated from the
opinion of your Inner Being. That’s nice to know.
- Negative emotion means you are disconnected and
THIS thought is bogus! It means you are being short sighted and far
off from who you really are.
- When you feel the glorious feeling of guilt,
smile and say, “My guidance is working! Source loves me anyway!”
- When you think, “I’m so bad, I deserve hell!,”
you feel bad, because your Inner Being doesn’t agree with you. You
don’t want your Inner Being to go there with you. Your human friends
will go there with you. Source will eternally love you and find value
in that which you are. Source knows the only way to call you anywhere
is to love you there. You can’t shove someone into connection with
- When you find a positive thought, you shiver
with appreciation. You are in alignment with who you really are.
- Grand daughter Kate hides the little car and
guides Jerry & Esther to find it with Cold-warm-warmer-warmer
–hot-hot-hot! And they find it every time. Your emotional guidance
is like that. When you feel love you are getting warmer, hate,
- To get acclimated to who you who you really are
– choose to find thoughts that feel better.
- Somewhere along the line, someone convinced you
to lose your regard for feeling good, that there is more ‘service’ in
feeling bad. You never expected to forget that feeling good IS good!
- Soften the gap from where you are to where you
want to be.
- You look at your daughter and think, “I feel I
am wiser and more capable of guiding her than she is of guiding
herself. “ but what you need to know is that your children have their
Inner Being calling them to independence. You must find a way to help
her find HER guidance, not yours. Otherwise you set up a war you
- Like when you ask, “Where are you going?” And
she says, “To a party, what business is it of yours?” And you say,
“Are you going to drink?” and she says, “Because it will bother you!”
And you say, “What are you going to do there?” and she says,
“Everything I can think of that will bother you!”
- She’s thinking over and over, “That ridiculous
question deserves a ridiculous answer.” She’s showing you what is
active in your vibration. And it tears her apart because you are
using her as your excuse to be disconnected.
- Try it this way… “do you think you are going to
have a good time?” She says, “I want to have a good time.” You say,
“Do you have guidance?” She says, “I know I do.” You say, “Then, go,
I want you to live happily ever after!” And she says, “We probably
won’t be drinking.”
- They behave defiantly, because they are saying,
“you don’t know!” You could say, “I don’t know what’s best for you,
but you do!” You are crippling you and making her crazy when you lay
the heavy trip of your happiness depending on her behavior.
- When you come into alignment with who she is and
who you are, you will stand in a place of stability. You will know
her wellbeing and call her to her alignment.
- You convince your children they don’t know where
they are going. And then you feel bad in the midst of that, not
because she’s in trouble, but because YOU’RE in trouble. You’ve
ripped yourself away from who you really are.
- Manifestations get bigger and bigger when you
refuse to change. When you beat the drum of getting in tune with
Source, you will remind your child who she really is. She understands
it and seeks alignment. She is often tapped in, tuned in and turned
on more than she can reveal it to you.
- You cannot ask your child to change in order to
ease your emotion. You feel, “oh, come on, when you were little you
made me feel good all the time!” Almost every parent on the planet
sits where you sit.
- As you let you be you and more into all you have
become, you feel fabulous, proud, frisky! It’s easy to be you when
you feel good. But how do you let you be you when you are in strong
negative emotion? Bless Step 1! Notice that negative emotion, and
say, “Good for me!” Step 1 matters. It puts the eternalness in
eternity. I don’t want to hold myself here for long, but there is
nothing wrong with where I stand now. I will let me be me.
- This financial crisis is a good thing. When you
get sick, it’s a good thing. You are putting utter wellbeing in your
Vibrational escrow. It may look like something going so wrong, but it
is not. How bad it gets equals how good it can get in the long wrong,
because it causes you to ask for more wellbeing in a stronger way. It
sets you up for such a good future experience.
- All economy, all reality, starts in Vibrational
Escrow. It wasn’t so long ago that you were trading furs and beads!
The economy is born out of individual desires. Fear contributes HUGE
energy to the pile of abundance to come. These avalanches of desire
in recent weeks are comparable (not quite) to the big bang. It’s a
HUGE energy. Are you going to hold yourself apart or defy the odds.
Ignore the pundits and get your piece of what’s going on now.
- Law of Attraction will support you in whatever
you decide. There’s too much wellbeing for anything to collapse. You
can temporarily pinch yourself off. It’s all energetic. Count it by
the emotion in your belly. Spend your thoughts and emotions. Your
wellbeing is much bigger than the economy. If you pinch yourself
off, your world gets petty and narrow. You deprive yourself of the
- Your boyfriend’s issue becomes your issue by
your focus on it. The way you feel is how well you are feeling about
him. Questioner: he’s scared all the time. Abraham: The longer you
tell the story, the worse everyone feels. Your job is to try to find
a way to tell it so you feel better. You can’t snap your fingers and
make this go away right now. You cannot control this. But you can
look at it in a way that tears you up and makes you want to run away,
or find a thought that feels a little better. You CAN see it being a
little better than it is.
- You all say, “Fix it and I will feel better.”
It can’t be fixed right away, but you CAN feel better. You do want to
feel better. You have to make the move in your mind. You could say,
“I really like the mess the whole housing industry is in – what if my
need to resolve this caused the whole crisis to be resolved!”
- Or, “it is what it is and we can’t fix it
immediately, but we can feel awful or hopeful within it. “ We would
have liked to have this conversation before it was such a big mess.
He was trying to be helpful, he had everyone’s best interest at
heart. That’s what’s bothering him most, bigger than the financial
impact. He feels God has forsaken him. The only salvation is to
realize no one is doing anything to him, that he is of value. But
he’s temporarily out of touch with who he really is.
- Esther’s reaction to the Secret was to feel
mistreated, deceived and dishonored. But when she beat the drum of
that, she was being out of alignment and her good could not get to
her. We choose not to see it the way that tears you from you. You
have to come into alignment to continue to thrive.
- You will defeat yourself by trying to control
the uncontrollable. Say, “I can control the way I feel. Where do I
place my attention?” It only took a year to bring Esther fully back
into alignment. Her vibrational escrow is SO much bigger now than it
was before. And the moment she turned to what it was that she wanted,
she felt exaultation and triumph!
- Just the same, this situation is increasing your
boyfriend’s Vibrational Escrow. He came in wanting to be of value to
other people, but he has to live by the vibrational laws, not local,
lesser laws. You’re ALL bigger than that.
- Make no decisions as long as you’re all wadded
up in a knot. You have to get over the feeling of injustices.
Remember why he bought it at first, and what it meant to him. Get
back in touch with all those good feeling reasons. And get aligned
with how big his vibrational escrow has become, and they will drop the
suit. The solution is already there.
- He just needs to get into the vortex and the
perfect things will occur around him. Let go of all other control and
feel better anyway. Remember the love and the wanting to help.
- He feels betrayed, see how the “service” thing
bites you in the butt? He’d do it again. He always wants to do what
feels best, to be an uplifter. There’s a big solution looming. The
Solution is there in the Pure Positive energy place.
- How can he get in there? Coach him – say, “I
know where your heart was and I know there is something bigger for you
here now. Relax!”
- And when he does, the riptide will turn him
loose. This is a temporary thing. He’s without choices about what to
do. But he can exercise choices about how he feels. And if he does,
things will turn out really good. Huge opportunities for huge motion
forward exist if you don’t panic in the face of current reality.
- When Esther started feeling Abraham’s energy,
she would swoon, but that was evidence of not alignment. In
alignment, she moves quickly from one vibration to another. Now she
is tuned to us, so she doesn’t feel it like that.
- You wanted to be tapped in most of the time, but
you also want to appreciate the value of your Step 1 times. If only
Abraham showed up here, and stood here and loved you, it wouldn’t be
meaty. The living of life is expansion. We want Step 3 to be your
dominant intention, but don’t withdraw from life to stay connected.
You will be connected, or not, moment to moment. We want you to learn
to love molding the energy.
- When you release resistance quickly, it means
you are already in the vibrational proximity of what you want.
- As a rule of thumb, Source feels WONDERFUL when
you are receiving it. If it doesn’t feel good, it’s your mother, not
your Source guidance you are tapping into. Get to a clear place, and
trust your glorious receiving.
- Esther sets her intention clearly: Abraham, I
want to speak clearly your words. She always means to do that for our
dialogs with you. Over time, for thousands of hours, she can feel our
clarity and her ease.
- Every now and again she would worry about not
getting it right. We offered her the complete assurance that she was
doing it right. She just keeps picking up the dominant thread in the
moment. Sometimes she would say, “Begin again” and stop, relax and
receive again if it didn’t feel quite right. There is not one of you
who cannot relax and receive your broader perspective.
- We would love you to view your world through the
eyes of Source.
- We are not wearing name tags – we’re
vibrationally the same. There is no point in trying to point out
difference between parts of Abraham.
- Esther follows guidance as she is driving.
Isn’t it better that she knows impulsively to change lanes and never
see a hazard? Other wise she would be in the middle of our getting
her attention, giving her the guidance to move away from it while she
runs right into it. You want to be in synch, getting the impulse and
acting on it.
- Source energy is here within you constantly, but
you have to get into harmony with it to be in alignment.
- You come forth with great reason. You want to
have conscious awareness of Source. Meditation stops resistance, and
your vibration raises.
- Sometimes channels are picking up thought forms
and dead people rather than Infinite Intelligence. Everyone has
access to Source energy, but there is a valuable uniqueness to Jerry &
Esther’s process and this audience.
- Anyone can be the physical recipient of Source
energy – a yawn is the body’s response to an impulse from
- Relax and allow your vibration to relax. Notice
how good it feels to be in alignment. Esther feels an exaggerated
version of alignment speaking for Abraham, but she can still focus on
something unwanted and feel bad. It’s all in the moment.
- When you feel bliss and joy, accentuate it,
focus on your glimpses of it, reenact them in your mind, and it will
be your experience, more and more. In your despair and discord, you
are asking for joy. Now just do rampages of appreciation and look for
more things to appreciate all the time. This hotel, feel appreciation
for this perfect room for this number of bodies and the hotel company
that created this stable platform for people to visit, and the cameras
and screens that make Abraham/Esther visible to all, and the wonderful
microphone and the excellence of the recording system – there is
enough to appreciate in this room to last you for days!
- In every moment there are sufficient things to
appreciate – get on a roll. Appreciate your car, the roads that got
you here, the food you’ll have… that’s how you feel as Source
energy. You have no excuse not to be chronically appreciative.
Looking for problems to solve takes you out of that space. You’ll
come to appreciate the bad times for the good times they promise in
your vibrational escrow. Appreciate the contrast and train yourself
up the emotional scale. There is no
situation/being/spot-on-this-planet that Source cannot rampage
appreciation about. It feels unnatural NOT to do it. It’s about
aligning with Source. It’s normal to do it on purpose.
- Question: How can I feel happy when I have this
pain in my legs? Abraham: It’s the same question we just had – how
can I feel different than I feel? Is it possible to feel physical
sensation and select a different emotion? If you have got negative
emotion, you are out of alignment, don’t worry, it will get bigger.
Source tends to your asking every time, and if you don’t go, the two
aspects of you are increasingly divergent.
- You have to make yourself feel better by
choosing a better feeling thought. Meditation or getting happy would
solve your discord and then the pain in your legs will go away. Just
do that, get happy!
- We say to doctors, you need to find the
vibrational core of the problem. When they release resistance, the
physical condition will go away. The physical manifestation is an
indicator of vibrational discord.
- When you say, “I have no idea” it just sets you
up for more work, it’s not helpful. We know Law of Attraction and it
is never squirrely. That makes it easy for us to expect understanding
- All manifestations are indicators of vibrational
balance. Everything is an indicator – your health, the condition of
your house and your body, manifestations always match. Accept that!
It is scientifically provable on every topic.
- Your discomfort is hindering but not
debilitating. It reminds you of your sense of decline. You feel it
acutely and your experience is valid. Where else do you feel
diminished? This has showed up as an indicator of something else that
was already going on. (He retired five years ago, has been doing PTA
and community things since.) You were used to making decisions about
things you had control over, and now you are feeling frustrated. A
little resistance goes a long way in a fast moving stream.
- It is helpful to acknowledge that nothing ever
happens physically without plenty of data before hand. Pain is post
manifestational awareness. The physical response comes close on the
heels of the vibrational misalignment. A little goes a long way.
Chronic conditions reflect chronic feels of disempowerment. It’s not
despair, more like frustration, it’s rarely ever really hindering.
- It’s just some insignificant chronic thought
that is causing this. Fell and listen for the indicators. Then stop,
and be grateful that you noticed it at the feeling level and talk
yourself back into alignment. You don’t have to psychoanalyze it.
There’s no value in touching the stove and feeling the heat and
analyzing it. Just move your hand away.
- Ask yourself what you want. This sensation can
lift off within 24 hours of identifying the bugaboo.
- To David in the hotseat: talking about the
political process, history and freedom. Abraham: The Founding
Fathers were rabel rousers. They were hip deep and beyond in contrast
and they launched many rockets of desire you are still living. They
connected to a concept for this new country at times. They gave birth
to extraordinary desire, but they did not always live up to their
- They were living step 1. Many of their
documents were channeled through one or two who were very connected,
while the rest were making trouble all over the place.
- You always have an environment that causes you
to ask. They were models of asking, and kept coming into alignment,
they were not more connected than you are now. And there were not
more of them in alignment than now.
- They lived under less freedom and they were
pickier and asking for more. The contrast serves you well, too.
There is more idealism in your Vibrational Escrow now.
- You have a preference for a happier president,
we didn’t feel either one was very happy, although both have moments
of happiness. To everyone, the one they perceive as happier is the
one who thinks more like them.
- You can’t have an experience that is less than
that which you are. They can only see through the lens of their own
experience. Esther cannot tell which of them is saying that which
they believe to be. You can’t articulate well outside of your own
- Your sense of freedom is really on the inside,
extremist that you are. There are extremists on both sides. Most
still are trying to control conditions to effect the way they feel.
The whole process is so scrambled that almost no one knows who they
really are. Very few are ready to acknowledge connected vs.
disconnected, or aligned or not aligned, which renders the entire
political process irrational.
- We want to emphasize alignment. Both sides can
line up with what they want.
- You did not say, “There’s only one right way.”
You intend to see the differences and still line up and allow
- You cast your vote vibrationally. What you put
in the ballot box doesn’t mean diddly squat. Our full view of the
future is that it is a beautiful world.
- The old ornery ones croak and the new fresh ones
- No longer use their focus of attention as your
excuse to not line up. Don’t ask others to approve before you line
up. This effective, life giving experience wouldn’t be happening if
you were all the same. Your differences cause you to ask, then turn
in the direction of what you are wanting.
- Source revels in the variety that they are, the
clarity they evoke. You can all live what you choose. Your attention
to their differences keeps you focused on what you don’t want.
- Esther recently saw John McCain’s aura come back
for the first time in months as he came back into alignment. All the
candidates want to be of value. Give your undivided attention to your
choice and stay aligned. You will get it no matter who ends up in the