Relationships
How can I make people change?
Abraham: Most importantly, we would like you to come to the place that you
could say, wholeheartedly, sincerely, really mean it, to everyone:
"I adore you as you are, change not one bit for me. Because there's enough about you -- and there are enough OF you -- that I can please myself by selectively sifting from among you that which makes up my perfect world. I am no longer going to ask any one of you to change in any way to make me even the
slightest bit happier. And in doing so, maybe that lets you off the hook, I don't really know, I'm not really caring all that much about that, but I do know one thing: it lets me off the hook. Because I am no longer asking the impossible. I'm no longer needing you to change so that I can feel better. I
finally got a direct route to feeling great, and that is controlling my own point of focus."
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"You are first and foremost individual creator and sometimes upon some topics you are co-creator. And, so often as you come together in a relationship, you smother the freedom that is essential to your being by expecting the other to now think exactly as you do, want exactly as you do, be exactly as you are upon all subjects."
Abe - Intro CD
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Last update: 2005-04-30 16:55
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